Mothers day musings

today on the mothers day when everybody is extolling the virtues of the mother mother the home care taker cook,financial manger and what nought her selfless being her spoltess white her cherubic smile her kaviyoor ponnamma like gait her tharavataama look i wonder have we ever thought of our mother as a human being with all the vices and virtues feelings love lust greed for life mother as we see it is just a role she is playing have we looked at her love life sex life her relaltions with life her life 
one day a woman told me of the role she has to play as a mother she is not a bad mother she is good mother better mother but the life she puts on emotional pyre in these days when we 100 years should we abandon our mothers to an emotional pyre when just they are fifty?